How To Give Feedback That Doesn’t Trigger the Impostor

How To Give Feedback That Doesn’t Trigger the Impostor

Giving good feedback is hard — especially when the person receiving it suffers from Impostor Syndrome, which makes them inordinately sensitive to anything they may perceive as criticism. Impostors’ mental and emotional boundaries are not sufficiently strong, so they...
A Simple “Brain Hack” to Loosen the Grip of Your Perfectionism

A Simple “Brain Hack” to Loosen the Grip of Your Perfectionism

Last year, I held a workshop session with employees at my daughter’s company to explore Impostor Syndrome. These employees are high-achievers, yet they complained of feeling anxiety, stress, and overwhelm — and they believed these feelings were getting in the way of...
The Confidence Gap

The Confidence Gap

A few years ago, I was advising a thriving startup with over a hundred employees. The CEO asked me to help initiate a search for a new CFO. His goal was to hire a woman. At the time, the executive team at the startup was composed of three men and one woman. For a new...