Tune in and calm down so you don't burn out.
Dr. Elise Bialylew (Founder, Mindful in May)
My path to becoming a social entrepreneur was an accidental one. I had spent many years as a doctor specializing in the field of psychiatry. In order to manage the stress of my work, I turned to meditation. It took a while before I was sold on it. For someone who thrived on being active it was almost intolerable to sit still. I remember falling asleep from boredom and experiencing the most profound agitation as though an unstoppable army of ants was crawling under my skin.
Our minds are our most precious resource; they are the source of happiness or depression, creativity or self-destruction, problem-solving or problem-making. It seems strange that we hardly take the time to care for what is our greatest asset. It's part of our culture to maintain physical fitness and vitality. We brush our teeth everyday to take care of of our hygiene and external appearance. So what about our minds? Why not take time each day to look after our mind to ensure it is functioning optimally? Current scientific studies are showing that regular meditation effectively maintains a healthy mind that is more focussed, clear and creative.
Like many people who are driven to create and make things happen, I used to wonder why anyone would "just sit there" doing meditation. As a compulsive doer myself, sitting down to meditate was profoundly challenging. Where was the productivity in that? But as much as I loved being creative and working on new projects, I discovered that without a way to tune in and calm down I was going to burn out. As meditation became part of my regular mental fitness regime, it re-directed my life and catapulted me into becoming an accidental entrepreneur, which is a little ironic.
Three years ago I created Mindful in May, a global online meditation campaign that both teaches people how to meditate and raises money to build clean water wells in developing countries. The idea came to me one day whilst I was sitting in meditation. I imagined there were many people in the world who wanted an easy, accessible way to learn how to meditate. It has inspired thousands of people from around the world to learn how to master their minds and make a huge difference through raising funds to build clean water wells to help the one in nine people on the planet gain access to one of life's most basic needs.
Mindfulness has supported me along the path to becoming an accidental social entrepreneur. Here are four ways it can help you.
1. Tap into Deeper Creativity and Innovation
Meditation creates an oasis of quiet, which gives the mind space to decompress at a time of information and technology overload. Although meditation is not about actively trying to make something happen, ripples of thought, sensation and emotion can creatively collide and result in innovative ideas and solutions.
As Einstein famously stated "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them." Mindfulness meditation cultivates a different state of mind, which can support an alternative perspective in everyday life.
2. Communicate More Effectively under Stress
Being a good communicator is a fundamental ingredient in leading a team. Under stress our communication skills significantly decline and there are neurobiological reasons for this. The fight or flight response, driven by our amygdala, is a reflex response to perceived threat, which evolved to protect us from danger. The problem is that this warning system has not changed for about 100,000 years.
Nowadays rather than the threat of physical predators we face psychological stressors, like an argument with our partner or a looming deadline. It requires mental power to solve issues effectively, but our higher functioning brain, the prefrontal cortex, goes offline when we're hijacked by the amygdala response.
Regular mindfulness meditation has been shown to increase the thickness of the prefrontal cortex, which is associated with such higher level brain functions as calming ourselves down in the heat of emotion and being able to communicate and problem solve more effectively.
3. Manage the Discomfort of Uncertainty
As an entrepreneur you create your own path and there are no guarantees it will turn out well. When you invest all of your energy, working relentlessly to bring your vision to life, there will be moments of uncertainty that can trigger self doubt, anxiety and confusion.
Mindfulness teaches you to make room for difficult emotions and find more effective ways of managing. Increasing your self awareness allows you to tune in to what is going on and find effective solutions. It encourages clearer decisions that are responsive rather than reactive.
4. Sharpen Your Focus
With invisible umbilical cords connecting us to our devices, staying focused is an increasing challenge. Our attention buzzes around with the restlessness of a mosquito fluttering between emails, Facebook, Twitter and text messages. We need to upgrade our "inner technology" of attention to meet the demands of an increasingly complex world.
A regular meditation practice helps you to develop an inner witness that monitors your attention. Over time it's like an inner coach who points out behaviours, thoughts or actions that are at odds with your goals or values. With mindfulness you are more able to stay on task.
This post originally appeared on The Huffington Post.
Have you tried mindfulness exercises? Have they helped you be more successful?
About the guest blogger: Elise Bialylew is a doctor, coach and mindfulness meditation teacher with a background in Psychiatry. She is the founder of Mindful in May, a one month global mindfulness meditation campaign that has inspired thousands of people around the world to learn how to meditate, whilst raising money to build clean water wells in the developing world. When she’s not teaching mindfulness she’s often losing herself in salsa dancing or african drumming. Learn mindfulness skills this May by registering for Mindful in May before May 10.